husband holding his pregnant wife December 3 Chronological Bible Study

Timeline. Map. Go to today’s Bible reading: 2Corinthians 10:1- 13:14

Godly Jealousy and Grace Living

Godly jealousy seems like an oxymoron. Jealousy is usually thought of as a bad thing, and in its most evil form it can lead to murder. But do we realize that there is a godly jealousy? For instance, men and women who are jealous to keep the relationship with their own spouses as pure and unadulterated as possible will constantly be vigilant to contribute emotional, physical, and material acts of love to them. Furthermore, they will not flirt with those of the opposite sex, whether personally, or through secret internet relationships, or through pornography. That kind of jealousy is something to be commended. That kind of jealousy is love.

In our last Bible study we saw that the Apostle Paul was proud of the Corinthians for their love and hospitality. As a testimony of their love for God, Paul wanted the Corinthians to be grace givers, that is, to provide for the material needs of the poor for whom he was taking up a collection.

In this section of Scripture, Paul desired the Corinthians to accept him and live out the grace they had been shown. This is grace living. Similar to grace giving, grace living occurs when Christians consider all that Christ has done for them and live like ones changed by the grace of God. Then they extend that same love and grace to others. Have you been changed by the grace of God? He offers you forgiveness, peace, and spiritual life. You will be new in your spirit and able to show his grace to others (more...).

When Paul visited the Corinthians he told them about Christ, and they were converted. Recently, however, the Corinthian believers showed signs that they were slipping in their spirituality. Because Paul was jealous for their relationship with Christ, he warned them not to slip back into sexual immorality and idolatry, from which they they had been saved. Paul had spent a considerable time disciplining them. He did not want his efforts to be wasted. He also did not want to be ashamed when he next saw them.

Paul wanted to be proud of the Corinthian believers, but their recent withdrawal from him had him concerned, and he was jealous over them. He even found it necessary to boast about all that Christ had done through him for their benefit. He wanted them to respect him and listen to him, though personally he loathed boasting. “But [Paul says], ‘Let him who boasts boast in the Lord,’ for it is not the one who commends himself who is approved, but the one whom the Lord commends,” (2Corinthians 10:17-18, NIV).

Paul was jealous for their relationship to the Lord. He said,

I am jealous for you with a godly jealousy. I promised you to one husband, to Christ, so that I might present you as a pure virgin to him, But I am afraid that just as Eve was deceived by the serpent's cunning, your minds may somehow be led astray from your sincere and pure devotion to Christ (2 Corinthians 11:2-3, NIV).

Paul had spent about three years discipling the Corinthians (Acts 18), wrote three letters (two of which were lost in subsequent years and never added to our Bibles), and now he planned a third visit to them. How concerned are we when brothers and sisters in Christ slip in their spirituality? Are we jealous of their relationship with the Lord so that we will seek to be involved in correcting the problems? That is godly jealousy. That is love. Hopefully, the people to whom we love and minister will see our genuine concern, will repent and live lives of godliness that will please not only us but also the LORD.

Lessons to live by:

  • Have you been changed by the grace of God? He offers you forgiveness, peace, and spiritual life (more...).
  • Live lives of grace: Have respect for others who have ministered to you. Remember what God has saved you from and extend that same grace to others.
  • Be jealous with godly jealousy. Care for people’s souls. Get involved when needed to restore others to a right relationship with God.

Today’s memory verse: The letter of 2Corinthians ends with what is perhaps the theme of the book and this will be our memory verse today:

“Finally, brothers, good-by. Aim for perfection, listen to my appeal, be of one mind, live in peace. And the God of love and peace will be with you,” (2 Corinthians 13:11, NIV).

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